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anonymous
writes:Hey. I'm a bit confused and unsure what to do. Firstly I'm 20 and like older men in their early to mid 30's. Basically two years ago when I was 18 I was seeing a guy who was 34 at weekends and occasional evenings. We'd go out in a group of mixed aged friends (i.e. some of his friends and some of mine). We always had brilliant fun and I always ended back at his flat sleeping with him. I felt that he really liked me as he'd text me daily and even ring me at two in the morning if he was walking home from a night out (if we had gone out separately in our own friendship groups). Anyway after about 3 months I was told by his brother that he actually had a girlfriend. I was stunned (he never spent time with her at weekends as he was usually with me or other friends). So I told her all what was going on and finished it with him. She stayed with him for a while but then dumped him. Me and him fell out over it but made friends again a month later. However I didn't sleep with him again.I eventually found a new boyfriend and had been with him for 18 months until a few weeks ago when I called it off because I couldn't deal with his poor behaved kids anymore.Over the last few months I have been in contact with the first man as he had been doing various bit and bobs to my car. And I realised that I still really like him. He still looks at me in the way he used to. I don't know if I should make a move though or if I shouldn't trust him after last time. He is single now though. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2012): I've been in this place. It's not fun. I wouldn't trust him to be open with you because he had his chance. And think of it this way, would you want another girl to feel the same way you did when you found out he had a girlfriend and the way his ex must have felt?
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (26 June 2012):
 IF he's single now and you end up with him as his GF will you ever trust him to not cheat on you?
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