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writes:Im dating a guy and everything is going on well. The only problem is sometimes i don't feel like he loves me. So i have come up with a plan that is to make him jealous. I know it might sound silly but thats the only plan i can think of. He really like browsing facebook. How can i make him jealous on facebook? Please i need your advice
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (27 June 2012):
I was going to write exactly what Tisha below said, but she beat me to it.
You sound like you're 13, not 18....
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reader, Elydiese +, writes (26 June 2012):
you could grow up and work on where your relationship needs work? or is that only sane people that do that?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 June 2012):
 Are you really in that age bracket, because this sounds more like a question from a 13-15 year old.
Give him some space and see if he tries to close the gap by paying more attention to you.
Perhaps it would help us if you explained how his behavior makes you think he doesn't love you enough. Instead of plotting schemes that can so easily backfire, why not explore what it is about your relationship that isn't "going well," as you say for the most part it is?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 June 2012):
 Why bother?????
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 June 2012):
If you do this, you'll get dumped. A girlfriend tried to make me jealous before, and I just dumped her.
The idea of making him jealous won't do anything other than make him think less of you. No confident, good guy can respect or care for a woman who plays games like this.
If you don't think he loves you, then you need to speak to him about it.
But please don't try this. You'll lose him.
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reader, ImmortalPrincess +, writes (26 June 2012):
 Jealousy is NOT an indication of love. It's a nasty little emotion, brought on by fear, mistrust, and insecurity.
If you feel the need to play these childish games with your "boyfriend" then clearly you are not mature enough to be in a relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2012): Instead of trying to make him jealous using facebook, why not make plans with him that get him away from the computer?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2012): girl, there are so many other ways to check and see if he loves you.
regardless of whether or not you know how he feels deep down, give the relationship your best and dont play games with him. a guy can love you and not get jealous, and a guy can get jealous and not love you.. dont let that determine the kind of girlfriend you'll be to him.
wouldnt you rather continue to have a relationship thats going very well?
you should be looking for ways to make his feelings grow more and more, not looking for ways to boost your ego at his cost. good luck
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (26 June 2012):
 I’m sorry your asking for a recipe for disaster.
If you are dating a guy and it’s going well why do you want to wreck it?
IF you don’t feel like he loves you then you need to TALK to him about it.
If you say “but I can’t tell him how I feel or what I need” well then it’s NOT going well. Part of dating someone is being able to communicate with him… so you need to let him know how you are feeling and why.
PLAYING GAMES (on facebook or IRL) is childish and folks that behave that way are not mature enough to be in dating relationships.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (26 June 2012):
 This question should be titled 'How can I make my boyfriend dump me by acting like an idiot on Facebook'
If you try and make him jealous, he will leave you because he will see what a ridiculous, immature silly little girl you are and he will move on to a normal girl who isnt addicted to drama.
The problem here is YOU. You are typical of so many young girls these days, unless there is drama in your relationship you are not happy. You want him to be jealous of you flirting with other guys so he gets upset with you, then you have a little fight, dont speak to each other for a few hours and then make up again.
If you want to lose your boyfriend then post a few pictures of you getting close with other guys, or start commenting on other guys Facebook comments etc.
If you want a grown up relationship that lasts, then dont even think about doing what I've just said above and realise that love is not fighting and drama - love is the peaceful, subdued happiness that comes with being together.
If you really feel unloved and cant cope with that feeling then talk to him about it, explain what he does that makes you feel unloved so he knows how he can change it.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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