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writes:what are some things about a guy that a teenage girl likes?I am an awesome artist, or at least im told so, and i am quiet, smart, but make stupid choices sometimes.my grades are good and I got a high overall average last quarter. im only 14, almost 15, and im a freshman in high school. Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 June 2012):
 Girls your age don't care about your grades, because they're not thinking marriage and future just yet. Girls your age are immature (same as guys your age) and want what most teenagers want: to be cool, fit in, and be popular. They want what their friends have. So if you want a girlfriend you should find a girl who has many friends who have boyfriends. And you should give her an impression that you have many friends and know the popular people. That will probably hook her on.
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reader, Justinara  +, writes (11 June 2012):
This is my first time as agony aount on this site. But here it goes. You are a artist, and if people tell you you are good at it than take it and believe it. However it does not matter what others think as much as you think about yourself. First thing I will say, which, if you are not doing, is develop a strong character and confidence. Because that is extremely attractive qualities to have. You say you are quiet, but being quiet is not a bad thing. Maybe you are just being mysterious. What you must understand is that you have to like yourself before others can appreciate you, and that includes girls. Being quiet, makes it hard for others to realise you are interested in them, so maybe now and than, try to to speak to girls, try just simple hi. Do not ever be eager, you want girls to notice you but if they do not than its not a problem. Watch how others do it, than practice it yourself but play smart. And if it does not go the way you want it, tell yourself its ok, if I don't make mistakes, I will never learn. So having the right attitude is important. You are an artist and if you like girls who are artist than you know what they like, someone creative like you. Not every girl will like you but its ok you will not like every girl too. Most teenage girls around your age are looking for nothing serious, and even if they say they love you, they would not know the meaning of that. So they are most likely to look for someone cute, fun and has a bit of money. Now if you really wanted a girlfriend, start enjoying talking to girls, make them feel special without throwing yourself over them.After all, no one wants a doormat. And having respect for yourself is vital, try to respect them too. Do not try too hard. Every girl likes a man who is confident, can take the lead, likes buying gifts, is generally cool and likeable. The thing is what one person likes is different to what another likes. Work on your image, play up on your talents, be a strong quiet guy, talk to girls and just have fun, be playful, observe the world and how it works, and get a good male role model someone who you can learn from. p.s. if you make stupid mistakes, don't make them twice. Making stupid mistakes is part of learning and you are young. Just commit to being the best that you can be and forgive yourself for the mistakes. Growing up can be fun so choose fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2012): The best advice I ever got about women was this: Their words mean nothing when it comes to what they like in a guy. Pay attention to their actions. Often times their actions will completely contradict their words.If you have sexual or romantic interest in a girl then let her know that pretty quickly. Don't try to be her non-sexual friend first and then expect to become sexual with her later on after you know her well. That strategy might work if a girl was doing it to get a guy, but when a guy does it to get a girl it almost always fails. Have you ever heard the phrase, "Nice guys finish last?" They don't say that for nothing. Girls usually like arrogant flirty jerks a lot more than they want to admit.
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