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writes: my boyfriend does not laugh :|okay i am already a damaged individual when it comes to guys and i have realized that and I've managed to remain a HAPPY single life . I decided to give this one a chance to a guy I've known for a good 6 years. He's a gentleman, he's nice and everything.He expressed to me that he has OCD, and gets anxiety. He takes pills for both.I don't know if it's the or just his personality...i cant seem to separate them.I am just bothered with the fact that he does not laugh...like seriously! I am such a fun person. When I'm with my girls, we are super stupid and will get attention everywhere we go, i mean everywhere! I'm not cocky I'm just saying, I am an outgoing individual and also very social. I love to laugh but he doesn't laugh with me. he'll hold it in or just smile. I want to be play around and do stupid stuff with him because that's just the kind of person i am...but I don't know how. PLS HELP! Any advice given is greatly appreciated! GOD BLESS. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (11 June 2012):
If you are a fun person and he isn't...you need to find someone else. Don't sit around too long and analyze why he won't do this or do that. It is just wasted time because he will not change his personality to be with you...that is just who he is. To me, it is pretty easy to laugh and have fun when you're around others, but some people are more serious. It has nothing to do with you personally...his personality is just more of a serious one.
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