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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have a sex buddy and I'm always understanding towards him. I don't want him to think I'm so demanding or clingy so I play it off. There are times when I get jealous and show it, like last week. We were in the pool and my friend splashed water at him, so I got a bit jealous and took off and set my towel on the floor and started tanning, just laid down and cooled off, but he left the pool quickly to join me and thought it was cute how I get jealous. He reminded me that I'm his. We're not official because he's friends with my brother, and we can't have him mad at us. Yesterday, he was hanging out with me and a couple of friends. His friend called my phone and my friend answered and pretty much his friend said are Ana and Danny together? Danny is my sex buddy, and well he got mad and upset that his friend would care so much if we were together. So he asked me if his friend and I had something. I let him know we don't. I told him, "I like you danny," and I told him I'm okay with what we have, I'm with no one else.Is this more than a sex buddy? Since feelings have been caught. Do I move on? Does it seem like love? Your opinion would be helpful. THANKS if you answer. I'm really confused.
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reader, golddigger99 +, writes (11 June 2012):
 Love? Definately not. When you love someone, you are NOT afraid to show your true feelings when others are around--even your brother. But...with that being said, it does sound like the two of you "like" each other. Since you've only told him that you "like" him and are "ok" with what you have, I wouldn't expect him to voice his feelings towards you--assuming there are feelings. It seems you told him, without actually saying it, that you are "ok" with staying 'sex buddies', suggesting you want nothing further. You might be surprised to know that he might want something further too...you'll never know until you ask.Men aren't as intuitive as women are, therefore I would suggest that you spell it out for him. If I were you, I would tell him straight up that you are interested in taking the "relationship" to different level, and if he is not ok with that or is not ready for any other reason, then go from there. Do you like him enough to wait until he is ready or are you interested in seeking other options? This is up to you to decide, but I do wish you the best of luck!
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