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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My girlfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half and we love each other very much. She intends to have her best guy friend stay at her house one night when he is in town and then next month she is going to stay at his house when she goes to visit him. This makes me very very uncomfortable and scared and a little hurt. I trust her very much and don't think she would do anything thing but I don't trust her friend. He is a good guy but seems a little too good and close to her. They text from the time she wakes up till she goes to bed, pretty much, and skype five out of seven nights a week. When I try to talk to her about all of it she says I'm smothering her and she's going to do what she wants. What do I do?
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (11 June 2012):
 They are smothering each other more than you are smothering her. She is not taking your feelings into consideration. She is just brushing this issue aside because she isn't going to do anything to change. You have to tell her that it is off limits, she can say you are smothering all she wants, but you have to really stand your ground and not accept this. You can still talk to her calmly and explain to her that you don't think you are compatible in regards to boundaries.
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