I had a one-night=stand, he said he would call and didn't. How long should I wait before I delete him as a friend?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So, I had an unplanned one night stand on Sunday. I normally never do one night stands. Only did it once before. I have heard so much from friends about guys being all nice and then never calling back and that has been my experience too last time, so I genuinely didn't expect nor did I ask for anything from the guy. The thing is, we actually hit it off really great afterwards. We spent the whole day together (not having sex) just talking and he cooked for me and made it really clear he didn't want me to go. He also escorted me home the next afternoon. He asked me if it is alright for him to call because he really wanted to see me again and I told him I was really embarassed by the way things happened between us and didn't want him to feel obligated to follow through, to which he repeated that his question was clear. So I gave him my details and he said he would add me on facebook and call me this week to get together. He did immediately add me but I have not heard from him since. I know his work schedule, so I know that the only convenient days to meet this week would be today and tomorrow. You guessed it. He didn't get in touch. If he doesn't get in touch tomorrow I am assuming it was a pleasant evening and that's all. The question is, how long should I wait before I delete him as a friend? Do I delete him as a friend? I wished there was something more but if nothing develops I want to cut my losses with dignity. Any suggestons? (PS I really liked the guy from before, it was not a stranger, so it is not easy anyway)

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