Did I make the right decision in ending this relationship?

A female age 30-35, *eginarobina writes:

My ex boyfriend came to the statse with a visa that expired a few months ago. He told me that he was planning on going back to mexico this summer to obtain a new one, but evaded it last minute byecause he didnt want to risk not being able to come back. I love him dearly, and have been together for a year and a half but i thought it was about time to end things. we were both miserable because my parents never let me see him and on top of that his illegal status would have meant i would have to marry him as soon as possible . I cant do that right now because i am 17, college apps is coming soon and i have a bright future ahead of me...while he has no ambitions at all whatsoever and is flipping burgers at carls jr. So i ended things with him but is starting to regret it because i miss him so much....do you think this was a right thing to do? He did everything he possibly could for me yet i feel like i betrayed him...btw he is 19

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