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How can I change my feelings?

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Question - (5 July 2012) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female France age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm feeling really guilty right now, I'm in love with my boyfriend's older brother... but his brother doesn't know. I'm really confused, i love my boyfriend and he gave me the greatest gift i could ever get: a daugther. My boyfriend is really sweet with me, he treats me well but he's too lazy, he doesn't know what he wants to do for living (he doesn't want to work and he's not doing fine in college) and i absolutely hate that. His brother has a career, he's still single and he has been really nice to me, he tells me i'm sweet, i'm perfect and i can help falling in love with him. I've already talked to him and all the time he tells me he's going to change but i doesn't happen. This is akward because my family loves my bf (they don't know about his idleness) and his family loves me too, if i try something with his brother we'll have a huge problem. What can i do to stop being in love with him??

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