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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I made out and ended up having sex with a guy friend while we were both drunk one night. Before we hooked up, we talked about our friends, families, life etc. We've been friends for over 4 years and he is part of my main social group. He says that we have a really "good vibe" and that I'm the only girl he can talk to like this. He's usually pretty shy and isn't very open with a lot of people. He also just recently lost his v-card to a random girl (so as far as I know I'm his 2nd and he said that this time it was a lot different because he actually likes me). Before that night, I started developing a crush on him over a year ago. This crush was nothing serious and I thought as time went on that I would forget about it because I'm in a long term relationship with my boyfriend. Anyways, the next morning we ended up having sex 2 more times and then decided it is best not to tell anyone. He said that things between us won't get awkward and that we are going to pretend it never happened. He is part of my social circle and is also friends with my bf. I feel kinda used and stupid but I understand why we both agreed to keep it a secret (if it gets out that we slept together I won't have any friends and he will lose friends too!). I was just wondering, do you think he actually likes me but for obvious reasons he can't? I guess it's just wrong timing...
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 Your poor boyfriend not only did his girlfriend cheat on him, but it was with one of his friends, you cannot get any lower than that. You both need to stop being so selfish and be truthful, your boyfriend deserves so much better and if you both lose friends well then it is because you both betrayed your boyfriend in such a horrible way. Let him go and find someone who will not treat him like this. As for your friend who knows it may have just been about the sex for him I can't tell, but you say you now feel used, how would you think your poor boyfriend would feel if he knew what you had done, he is the victim in all of this not you.
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