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writes:Dear cupidI feel so weird because i feel like i'm in love with my current boyfriend. We've only been dating for three months so sometimes i feel stupid for having such strong feelings already but i cant help it. I've never been this way with any guy and usually i get sick of them after a week let alone a few days. I actually want to spend time with him and i miss him all of the time. We only see each other maybe 2 or 3 times (if i'm lucky) a week because we're both really busy with work.I'm not exactly the most experienced girl when it comes to relationships but i do know that this is my first actual boyfriend. Any other relationships i've had only lasted so long and never even got to the point of sex and the two that did... we only had sex once and it ended. He's the first guy i've had consistent sex with so i'm not sure if thats a contributing factor to my strong feelings for him. Anyways.. i'm worried about confessing these feelings to him in the future.... but i definitely don't feel ready to do it now. He's a lot more experienced than me and i know he's had a lot of relationships in the past so sometimes i feel a little intimidated by that. He's 34 and i'm 21.Has anyone ever felt this way before? Is it stupid that I feel love so early? Reply to this Question
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reader, BondGirl72 +, writes (5 July 2012):
 It's not stupid, just take things slowly. Sometimes when you find you're in love someone, you want to start taking leaps and bounds instead of normal steps with them.
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reader, SensitiveBloke  +, writes (5 July 2012):
 It's great that you feel this way about him, but your reluctance to tell him suggests you think he may not feel the same about you. Have a heart-to-heart with him but don't put him under any pressure. If in time though he doesn't feel this way too, the relationship will not last. Give things time though and just see how they develop.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 July 2012):
 No it is not stupid at all. A lot can happen between two people in three months, and as you said yourself this is your first serious relationship so off course you are going to feel a strong connection with him and have deep feelings for him, it is completely normal. As you said you are not ready to tell him how you feel yet which is completely fine, but please do not be afraid in the future to express to him how much you care for him, it is always nice to hear this from a partner. So please don't worry about it and don't feel you are wrong about having such close feelings for him, this is a good sign and I hope it works out between you both.
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