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writes:Hey there everyone! I hope your enjoying your summer right now, while I'm at summer school. -.- O well. I need help on something.There's this girl I like right now at the moment since last November. We meet at a social networking site where you get to meet you people and all that other good stuff. Anyway, we been talking since last August. I remember in my mind what she said to me and everything. I still remember. The thing is, she told by via facebook she has a bf. Anyway, today was the day I officially meet her in person at summer school. Don't worry, it's a legit person and nothing bad.Anyway, she had a huge smile on her face when she saw me and started blushing. Like we were going out to the point were not making any sense at call. In addition, she told me about her boyfriend not coming to summer school and putting sorta her rage at me. Back to the main point, has we were talking, she was smiling, blushing, and she was speechless when I told her things from the past that she couldn't remember. For example, what career, what she likes, and some good things in the past. Not the bad ones. But here's the thing, do you think she really likes me more then friends while she is dating her bf. Here are some of the hints I found:- She sorta blushes- She smiles a lot- I sorta made her day when she didn't have a calculator in class- We talk alone- We have good conversations- Also, we have eye contact and sorta blushes/smiles at the same time.- In the end, I asked for a hug and she smiled.Guys or girls with boyfriends or girlfriends. Do you think she likes me more then friends even if she has a bf? Like she told me at times that we should hang out sometime. She's like for sure and I said you can bring your boyfriend if you want. She's like, no answer. Also, I do have a crush on her. In addition, I sorta getting jealous that she has a bf but at least I'm admitting it. Don't worry people, I didn't show anything or tell her how I feel about her because that's just plain dumb.Anyway, tell me what you guys or girls think. Sorry for my poor English if anything. I hope you can understand. Lastly, have an awesome day and summer! =)
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 July 2012):
 She mentioned her boyfriend. That's a clear sign she currently has you in the friend zone.
You have a crush on her so you will want to interpret every little thing as a sign she's into you...
sounds to me that even if she does like you as more than a friend, she's very clear that she has a boyfriend and won't cheat on him... this is a very good thing.
perhaps if she and her boyfriend break up you would have a chance...
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (5 July 2012):
I think you’re the first person I’ve come across who has wished us agony aunts a pleasant day! You’ll go far in life with such a nice attitude.
There’s nothing obvious in her behaviour that shows clearly that she wants anything more than friendship. In any case, she’s unavailable and you shouldn’t assume that she and her boyfriend will break up. Whilst she’s in a relationship, you can only have friendship with this girl, however you or she feels about each other. You either have to accept that, or tell her that you have feelings for her. If you do that, the decision then is hers about whether she feels the same, or whether she wants to break things off with her boyfriend or not. On the other hand, at least you’ll know where you stand. If you do tell her how you feel, make sure that if you want to remain friends regardless of her answer, you emphasise how much you value her as a friend. There’s a myth that friendships are ruined once some-one has admitted to wanting more, but that’s not always the case, especially if you can, however difficult, deal gracefully with an answer that you don’t want to hear, if that’s what you are given. So stick with friendship, or tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same. That’s the choice you have to make.
I wish you all the very best.
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