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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hiI met this girl at work a few weeks ago and as soon as we met we got on really well. I fell for her looks and personality and every now and then she would mention her ex, so I thought she may have been single. However, she later mentioned she had a stable boyfriend. In the few weeks I have known her, she has invited me out with her friends, been teasing me and she has been making more physical contact with me. A few days ago, she sent me a message saying that she'd split up with her boyfriend and I'm beginning to wonder if its because of me. I really like this girl and would like have a relationship with her, but I'm not sure what I should do. I don't want to tell her how I feel about her since she just broke up. What do you think I should do and do you think from the signs she's giving me that she might be interested?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 July 2012):
 If I am honest with you there really is nothing there to point out that she wants anything more than friendship, yes I might be wrong but I just do not want you getting your hopes up if there is nothing there. She told you she broke up with her boyfriend but that could be just because she sees you as a friend and she wants some support. I am pretty sure she would not just break up with her boyfriend over you without finding out if there was anything between you and her before hand.
I would suggest that you tell her how you feel, but she has just been through a break up and even if she did agree to go out with you I would be scared in case you where just a rebound and you got hurt. Therefore I think the best thing that you can do at the moment is to just be her friend and be there for her as much as you can and you can read from how she acts around you if she wants more or not.
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