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writes: Me and a guy friend were talking on Facebook:Him: Congratulations :)*comes online an hour later*Him: Hey youHim: Not long now till I'm back Me: Hi, yeah I knowHim: So, congrautlations again - facebook official! :OMe: Thanks Him: Hehe, so, whats he like?Me: Lol I don't know how to answer that. Somebody I'm really happy with.Him: That's really good :)Him: I'm seriously really happy for youMe: Thanks. I'm really happy too!*no reply*Me: So, looking forward to coming home then?Him: Yep, looking forward to seeing me?We were supposed to meet up this weekend but since that conversation, which was last Monday, i haven't heard anything from him. Do you think he's lying about being happy for me? We had a casual thing but that was ages ago and he has a girlfriend now. He knows i've been dating somebody so i'm not sure why he seemed so surprised when i made it official. He did start flirting with me and making sexual comments but i told him to knock it off and he mostly has.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe text me this morning asking if i wanted to see him this week. He said he couldn't come down at the weekend. I haven't replied.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): Just block him on Facebook, stop worrying about him.
If he really wanted to meet up with you he would have.
Actions speak way louder than words.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just find it odd that he hasn't spoken to me at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): Hi,
From the facebook chat it sounds like he is a bit jealous. If he's been ignoring you, it must be a)to forget you as he probably realised he likes you more than as a friend or b)to test you and see if you'll come back running to him. My take is you can't be friends with a guy who fancies you. Unless, you want to end up in a messy love triangle. My advice would be to move on and stop all contact with him because if he were truly happy for you he wouldn't ask if your new boyfriend is better than him. Also, do you really like your boyfriend? If you do, you shouldn't be worrying about what your male friend thinks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe said he was happy for me but then hasn't spoken to me since when we were supposed to meet up. He also keeps asking if the guy i'm with is better than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): He probably is happy for you,why wouldn't he be.People who have partners like to see their friends happy too.
If you care that much about how he feels,then I would seriously question if you should be with the guy your dating and why you give a damn what your 'friend' thinks.
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