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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): There are thousands of guys your age that would be happy to commit to a real relationship. You are voluntarily rejecting them in favor of being this guy's FWB.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2012): I don't think you have anything in common with him- he is a non monogamous person who can have nsa flings and you clearly aren't.
Ditch this guy for good, you won't regret it in the long run. Don't go in any deeper than you have already. If you tell him how you feel he will most likely try to keep you in this without giving you what you need while he continues to date others.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (27 February 2012):
 6 years is not quite a bit. I’m 13 yrs older than my fiancé. So in the beginning you make it clear it was FWB/NSA and you fell for him….
Your feelings changing does NOT change who he is… or how HE feels…
IF he felt about you the way you feel about him you would know it… he would not be seeing other girls…
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is quite a bit older than me about 6 years.
At the start we made it clear it was seeing each other/fun but it is me that has started to develop feelings so i dont know whether to say to him or not. I know he is still seeing other girls that i dont know what to do whether to talk about how i feel or leave? I am trying to distance myself from him but it is hard. We get on great and both very similar personality and interest wise which makes it harder.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 February 2012):
What good would talking to him do? I think you should cut your losses and go now if you are so sure he’s a player.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): yes, walk away. it's only 4 months, you'll forget him before you know it.
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reader, PerhapsNot +, writes (27 February 2012):
 You can't see/date other guy because you have feelings for this guy. He clearly doesn't have that problem, right? If he can date girls while he is dating you, it means he just doesn't feel the same way about you. You're way more invested emotionally in him than he'll ever be in you, so it's best to get out now before you dig an even bigger hole for yourself.
Seeing him one last time won't change the fact that he is seeing other women. If he cared about you, he would be exclusively with you. He doesn't and you need to move on.
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reader, amandang1208 +, writes (27 February 2012):
 If you haven't talked about having a monogomous relationship, now is the time to do it. If he is not cool with it, move on if that is what you want. People can change if they find the one they want to be with. Maybe he thinks you like to see other people too unless you have told him that already. Let him know how you feel. If he can't change his player ways, there are plenty of guys out there that I'm sure would only want to see you! Good luck!!
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (27 February 2012):
 There's no need for you to get involved with a player. Most people find it difficult to identify one. He's seeing other girls and you know that so what's the need9 he won't be yours even for a week! I know you having some feelings but I think you should channel this energy in a different direction. You haven't mentioned why you like him. Is he cute, rich or what? No matter what your better off with someone who is as into you as much as you are into them. Or at least one who's into you for the right reasons and then see how it goes. Leave the one way street alone.
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reader, JustHelpinAgain +, writes (27 February 2012):
Sorry, I don't want to sound negative but if you read what you have written then the only comment is why are you wasting your time with this guy? You should feel a bit mad with him for not showing you the respect you deserve. You will soon forget him and the experience will teach you to take care of your heart. If you are dating guys in your age group (18-21) then I am afraid that you may well have to be bit selective to find a guy mature enough to share your heart with.
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