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36-40,
*missyourkisses
writes:I met this guy not too long ago. He kept trying to talk to me and i kept blowing him off cuz I was busy. Finally he got my attention and we talked and exchanged numbers. we texted a lot and went out a few days later and had an AMAZING time. We kissed. we hung out again a few days later and ended up getting a little more physical but I stopped it before it got further. By this point I wasn't sure of his intentions but I had a feeling he was not interested in dating me and i wanted to sleep with him and not waste any time trying to "date" him. so we hooked up and before that he kept asking what i thought of him etcthe next morning i texted him saying last night was fun but a one time thing and i was interested in getting to know him but if that wasnt mutual he should delete my number. all he replied was "alright"did i do/say the right thing? I wanted to avoid any future 1 am booty calls in the future and didnt want to get lead on
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reader, imissyourkisses +, writes (27 February 2012):
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I knew he would never ask me out on dates because he just kept asking for me to come over. how do you handle these situations. just say no?
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (27 February 2012):
 It is time for you to just wait. It's all up to him now. If he wants more time with you, he will be in touch.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2012): Stop having sex so early if you want a guy to WANT to get to know you. What you told him made no sense. Basically you were wanting him to forget you were so easy but at the same time thought having sex with him would inspire him into dating you? Doesn't work like that.
If a guy doesn't see you as an easy lay, he'll take you out on dates for starters. Then after dating you without sex, he'll get to know you and get attached. Putting out early will ruin all that.
Point is, you can't take back what happened but you can learn from it.
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reader, amandang1208 +, writes (27 February 2012):
 Either he's really shy about talking about his feelings or he just used you to get what he wanted and now he's done. It's sad to say, but a lot of guys are like that; although I could say the same thing about a lot of girls. My advice is to suggest to him to go out. Say "Let's get together and go to dinner." Talk to him face to face about how you feel. Bring it up again. Let him know you want to get to know him. If he says "alright" again or if he declines the dinner date, delete his number and move on. If he calls again after dissing you, don't answer, I guarantee you this time it is definetly a booty call. Good luck!!
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