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writes:I have been dating this guy (we are both in our late 20's) about 3 months and prior to our first date we talked nearly every day one the phone for a month. It's been 3 weeks since we've seen each other and 2 weeks since I've heard from him. We had been getting along quite well. Our last conversation, via text, involved me asking him to an activity and he replied back ' hey sweetie, I'm sorry but x wants me to stay the night' (x being his family). I haven't heard from him since. I've sent a message a first telling him how much I enjoy his company and that I miss him. Then sent another later just wondering about his well being. I also tried calling him once and left a voicemail expressing the same and I haven't heard anything from him. I haven't been to where he's home currently because he recently moved back with his family because he got out of the military. I don't know how much longer I should wait to hear from him, if I should try contacting him one more time just to see if he's ok or drop him completely? -
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 February 2012): Thanks for the insight. I just didn't expect this particular behavior from him, especially since just a couple days before the last message he was talking about getting together then, but didn't happen for a legitimate reason. But, in the end, 'unless he's fallen off the planet' he's choosing to not contact me...Unfortunately, I'm just not privy to why that decision was made and will 'chalk' it up to an interesting experience.
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reader, katiekate +, writes (27 February 2012):
 You've definitely done all that you should. You've contacted him multiple times, all with no response. The ball is in his court, and it sounds as if he's purposely choosing not to contact you. In that case, you definitely need to move forward with the assumption that he is not interested, and just move on. Definitely don't contact him again. If you feel the need for some sort of closure, maybe just text something like, "Well, haven't heard from you, so I hope all is well, and take care"...Something that puts an end to the relationship and may give you a sense of closure. If you don't need to though, I would just leave it alone and move on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): Alarm bells ringing here, you've left numerous messages and he hasn't responded, so unless he's fallen off the planet,he's ignoring you.
Not surprised your confused but sounds like he's not going to get back to you. I would leave it now,carry on as though it's over. x
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reader, cats  +, writes (26 February 2012):
 Just sit back and wait for him to contact you, uv text n called wat more can u do. If he dose contact u make sure his story is good. I wudnt get too excited bot dis guy if can't return s phone call he's nt worth it !
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (26 February 2012):
 Chalk this up as an "interesting" experience that ain't goin' nowhere!!!!.....
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