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female
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30-35,
*TeenGirlx
writes:Dear Cupid,I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now, we're not official but things are getting more serious between us as time goes on...He's the first guy I've ever been sexual with, I've given him a handjob and a blowjob. Now I've only given him a blowjob once, that was my first time ever doing it and I did it with him...I spoke to him about it on the phone the other day because I haven't seen him since it happened so we hadn't had the chance to talk about it.I asked him whether it was bad and if I wasn't good at it.. He said "why would it be bad?" I said "because it was my first time doing that so I wanted to know if I did it well for my own consolation" and that's when he said he had a hard time believing that it was my first time doing that, I asked him why and he told me it was really good and I did it the way an experienced girl would do it.I found that complimenting and insulting at the same time. Is it bad that he doesn't believe me? I know he's got major trust issues, he's been working on them but he still has a hard time believing me and what makes it worse is that I'm up for experimenting and trying new things, I think it would be fun, I've done that for him now I want to try something different so I bought strawberry lube because my friends and I were out shopping and they just said to try it.. But I'm thinking that might just push his doubts further?Also, how would I go about bringing the lube up? There's times where I do get quite shy around him so I don't know if I could just take it out, because that wouldproably push his doubts further like I mentioned.
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reader, amandang1208  +, writes (26 February 2012):
 Ok, OMG, I have been through almost the same thing before. The guy ended up spreading everything we did together around the whole school after he dumped me. This guy sounds like he is only after one thing. I could be wrong, and I hope I am. If he doubts you right off, babe, you have major troubles ahead. The same guy that took my virginity spread around that i didn't bleed very much when we had sex for the first time, so he didn't think I was a virgin. Give me a break. I'm sorry, but this guy sounds like a loser. Find someone who will trust you.
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