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anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend broke up with me in 2006.I did not see it coming because we were getting on fine.I was terribly hurt by the breakup. He recently contacted me in december 2011 saying he wanted us to get back. He sent me a love song and was telling me he had not changed.I told him i was chatting to someone else online, which is true. Since then, i have had no contact from him. I found out he is now on a dating site. Shall i contact and tell him how i really feel..or i should i just leave it? cant sleep..thank you Jess
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): I agree with Anon poster. I think he was rushing to have someone so he would not be alone or lonely. Pushing for a quick fix I would say.
Don't bother contacting him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): He is at a lose end - so wondered if you were on the scene. That's the reason he has been in touch. It wouldn't be so bad if he'd just said 'let's meet for a catch up' but to try and hook you with love songs? You will only be hurt again if you take up with him. So no, don't even be driven by curiosity, forget him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2012): He was just fishing and still is, that's why he's on a dating site
Ultimately it's your choice but why open that can of worms again, he hurt you badly, so do you really want to risk a repeat?
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (26 February 2012):
 Jess, he contacted you out of the blue, and is on a dating site .... he was just feeling lonely and thought he would try his luck again. He broke up with you and then tells you he has not changed.
Give him a miss, he is a loser user!
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