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writes:hey! so i like this guy, he's 8 yrs older than me. it's a love at first sight kinda thing, cause i only met him once...I was walking in a corridor with my sister and he passed by and said hi to her (she knew him), then looked at me and smiled. Later he started messaging me on fb. It's being going on for 2 months now and i'm really falling for him. by the way he talks he seems interested in me, that's based on my opinion and that of others. now currently i'm not living at home, cause i'm studying abroad, but in one week i'll be going back home for a holiday...he knows this and mentions and asks a lot if i have any plans of how i'm going to spend my time....Now yesterday before he left the conversation he wrote this: 'can't wait too see you when you're back home''....do you think he's thinking about asking me out? or am i 'so in love' that i'm imagining a fairytale that's never gonna happen?
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 yeah, not asking him out would be a really bad mistake.
ASK HIM OUT!
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reader, Amanda-Louise93 +, writes (11 February 2012):
 He's old compared to you but whatever do what you want. If he doesn't ask you out ask him why not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys i appreciate all the advice! just wanted to say that i didn't really mean the ''so in love'' thing...i mean i can't say what love is with a guy cause i have never experienced it! the ''so in love'' feeling is more like 'falling for him hard and blinding yourself with all the positive things you could see in the relationship, that you might miss the truth of the signs he's giving off' ...& i myself know that not all that glitters is gold so that's why i asked for your advice, to see your opinions about this!
somewhere deep inside me i do believe that he might ask me out, but there's also the other side of me that tells me that its a dream that will never come true..
..ohh and its a no no regards to asking him myself out, i'm too shy .
thank you all!
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (11 February 2012):
Eight years is not a tremendous difference. I recommend you pursuing it. Do not be a fool and think you are in love. You do not know what that entails.
However, find out! Be level headed, be objective, and make sure he can be trusted.
If he can, date him.
If he can't and you feel uneasy, don't date him.
As far as the fairytale thing, why don't you ask him out if you want.
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