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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am in love with this guy whose league am totally out of.He basically has all that life has to offer(money, looks etc) while I am from a simple background. We have a career match though because we are both finishing grad school in the same subject in a few months.The problem is he flirts with a lot of girls and actually we talk about it. He says I flirt too, but I have assured him I do not and it's the truth. I mean, I do not flirt with him because I know I love himI was told by a close friend that he thinks I have feelings for him. Nowadays I feel he is pulling my leg with his love remarks. He recently asked me if I could ever tell a guy if I liked him. I told him no!The thing is, he talks about multitudes of gals who he likes and would love to make a move. But truthfully, I am not sure...I have been with him for three years in grad school and even thou he talks about the girls, he has never made a move so he has not had a girl in school.I am wondering, is he truly a flirting prince who is actually empty and I could try and make a move or should I just leave the whole idea of this guy.Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2012): He sounds like a major tool and a douche bag. I'd say get rid of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2012): This guy just likes you as a friend while you put him on some sort of pedestal. Flirting with you is not some contract he's signed giving you ownership rights over how he acts with other women. Only a committed relationship gives you a say in that and so far, he hasn't asked you out on a single date. I would say it's very clear where you stand: friends.
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