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writes:What should i do in order to win the heart of a girl who is in a relationship, even though i might not be able to see her often because of her studies?how do i become very close to her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2012): It's up to her to break up with her boyfriend if she is actually unhappy. It's none of your business and, to be blunt, you need to butt out.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (11 February 2012):
 When I first saw this submittal, I chose not to make a "reply".... BUT, your subsequent "reply" now gets me to consider this:
You write: "... consider this,what if this guy doesn't really value this lady & their relationship & she's just waiting for the right guy to come around?..."
I suggest: What if YOU become ""this guy"... and she decides that she'll play YOU whilest "... she's just waiting for the right guy to come around?"
Won't you feel like an idiot then???? Wait until this girl makes up her mind about who she is, and who/what she would like to have in a boyfriend.....
Good luck...
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reader, Amanda-Louise93  +, writes (11 February 2012):
 Should you? No
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (11 February 2012):
 Short answer; You DON'T. You forget all about trying to "win her."
The ONLY circumstance where you could conceivably attempt to form a friendship with her would be IF she and her boyfriend break up. EVEN THEN you give her some time - at least a couple of months - before you approach her. Why? because someone who has recently ended a relationship needs time on their own, and to reflect on the ending, and therefore to heal.
And by the way, NO, you must not do anything to try to cause a breakup - not that you appear to be thinking along those lines. That would be really dishonorable.
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (11 February 2012):
Short answer; You DON'T. You forget all about trying to "win her."
The ONLY circumstance where you could conceivably attempt to form a friendship with her would be IF she and her boyfriend break up. EVEN THEN
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2012): Save yourself the heartache and find a girl who's single.
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reader, Okiki +, writes (11 February 2012):
Okiki is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your answer,but consider this,what if this guy doesn't really value this lady & their relationship & she's just waiting for the right guy to come around.don't you think been her close friend isn't a bad idea?all the girls i have liked are all in a relationship.so what should i do?
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reader, Okiki +, writes (11 February 2012):
Okiki is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for your answer,but consider this,what if this guy doesn't really value this lady & their relationship & she's just waiting for the right guy to come around.don't you think been her close friend isn't a bad idea?
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reader, Abella +, writes (11 February 2012):
 Please find another nice girl.
This girl you have identified is already in a relationship and no one will thank you for trying to disrupt her existing relationship.
There are millions of other people in the world who are not in a relationship. Please direct your efforts and attention towards a truly single woman.
Once you are in a relationship you will realize how very very hurtful it is to cheat and worse, and how unhelpful and sad it is to be cheated on.
Besides, surely you would prefer a girlfriend who could see you every day?
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reader, Ayan Ganguly  +, writes (11 February 2012):
 I think you should not bother the girl if she is in another relationship...accept the fact that she is in love with someone else...there is definitely someone for you too,but may be she is not the one...and it is not chauvinistic to play tricks to win over a girl who is in another relationship.
But if you really like her and you know that she is not happy in her current relationship try approaching her like a friend..may be you can start off by starting your discussion about a common topic..which interests her...build up a friendship and then maybe you can ask her for a relationship...but this piece of advice is strictly if you really like her and she is not happy with her current relationship.
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