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30-35,
*hunky
writes:recently i have been really chocked about something here it goesmy fiancée was with his ex girl friend these days and littarly he begged her to come back to him he lied to me that he did love me he lied to me about everything then he tells me that ti wasn't his fault he couldnt help it so we broke up and then got back together and told me he was sorry so i said just promis me don't ever talk to her bad or in good even don't say hello ( not littarly fcours ) the reason of this is im talking to this girl (his ex and with my friend about the situation i have proof about everything like printscreen's phonemessages , history and ect.. so he said because she made problems between us im going to make her live misrable and he blackmails her that he is going to put pictures of her on the internet or video recorded of her being naked ( he claimed that ) so i said ur a bad person if you do this what if me and you have these things together would you make that stuff too ? when we fight would you make my life misrable too how can i trust you again ? the weird part of this i do trust him about everything exept the fact that he wanted his ex back and still lying to me is this cheating?? what he did? im no good english speaker but it seems like that its the word anyhow... i dont know what to do is it good that im back with him ? most of it im back with him because he has so manyproblems in his life that he can't think straight he still loves her but i know she don't want him back all i want is to make him feel good that he forgets her I truly love him.. but i dont want him to lie to me ever So what should I do?should I break up
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reader, Phunky +, writes (13 February 2012):
Phunky is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks Everyone for you're opinions it really helps i'll call him tonight Too meet up and going to break up thanks
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reader, VSAddict  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 If he's in love with anyone else besides you, then he shouldn't be with you. It's not fair for you to be with him and his feelings are not limited to you. Break up with him for good because you shouldn't be feeling insecure within your relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): Leave this guy. He's dating you to get over his ex, and that's not working. It's not fair to you, and you deserve MUCH better than what this guy will ever offer you. Find a real guy who will love only you, and make you the top priority in his life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): "all i want is to make him feel good that he forgets her . . ."
Impossible, he's still in love with his ex.
"I truly love him.."
He doesn't love you, and he treats you like dirt.
"but i dont want him to lie to me ever"
Impossible, he's a liar.
"So what should I do?should I break up"
You have two options: marry a guy who doesn't love you, lies to you, cheats on you, treats you like dirt and is still in love with his ex; or you can break up with a guy who doesn't love you, lies to you, cheats on you, treats you like dirt and is still in love with his ex. Your call.
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