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My past is haunting me. Who DO I love really?

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Question - (11 February 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 February 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *rueloveneverdies11809 writes:

Hey,well im 17 and im feel very lost right now.well heres my story

I used to date a guy about 2 years ago "yes i know young" but the problem is now im dating a NEW guy

He's like everything a girl could ask for. He treats me like no other guy can.

I'm his world. We're like best friends. He has a cool relationship .

i love him but whenever im with him i feel empty. "We've been together for a year and two months"

My ex "one i spoke about first" and i have been speaking." were in the same school" and we made out in the locker room. when im with i get butterflys .im constanly smiling i feel complete.

Please im begging for help

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A female reader, trueloveneverdies11809 United States +, writes (11 February 2012):

trueloveneverdies11809 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks guy:*

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2012):

Sometimes you just want what the heart cant have, if thats the case then you are enfactuated with somebody that you know didnt workout and you must have really wanted to. A year and 2 months is a long time and if your unhappy dont stick around, eventually break out of that you dont want to let more time go by "feeling empty", I know what your feeling.Good guys are very hard to find, but you cant force yourself to love or least like a good guy. All you can do is be true to yourself.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (11 February 2012):

janniepeg agony auntA year and two months is a long time to be with someone you don't have feelings for. A good guy does not automatically make you fall in love. There are other factors like chemistry, compatability and common values. The thing that's missing could be that you don't feel desired either because he is too shy, did not want to push boundaries, or you are just best friends as you said.

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