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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ok, this will be long so just stick with me. I'm 15 and i've been head over heels in love with this guy for 4 years.(we've known each other ever since like, senior infants.)he's had many girlfriends and has many girl friends(get me?) because hes so popular and good looking.Even though i'm a plain boring unsocial bookworm (and not his type) he's asked me out like,3 times! but i just laughed him off and didn't answer (i guess i'm insecure). i found out during the summer of 6th class i'm not allowed to date till i'm 18 (my parents are really religous, they don't know about him) and i've kept this embarrasing secret ever since. he's told me he loves me, i'm his no.1, asked me out, asked me about myself and even wanted to give me his phone no.(omg)but i didn't believe him because why would he like me??(he probably joking, i tell myself) i've tried to make my feelings go away by making him leave me alone but that just got him confused and hurt so hes been avoiding me (great). i miss him talking to me really badly. so this year i'm leaving for another school and i'm lost at what to do. i don't want to leave him in case he finds someone else,(he doesn't know my feelings) because that will pain me and i don't want to get on my parents bad side. so,em.. yeah. help please? what should i do???
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters  +, writes (11 February 2012):
 I would go out with him, and then whenever y our parents as you where you are going, lie.
IF he says to you, "I want to have sex" then say no and don't put yourself in a situation where that can happen.
Go out with him the way normal young teenagers do.
If he is genuine and you have been feeling for him for 4 years, its not worth listening to an overbearing and nonsensical rule.
All dating starts off as friends anyway.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (11 February 2012):
 IF he has asked you out and you like him you should tell him you like him but that you are not allowed to date yet.
it's not an embarrassing secret... it's a fact of life that sometimes parents are too strict.
he stopped talking to you because he thinks you don't like him.
Would your parents accept him as a friend if he came to the house to meet them and visit with you when they are home?
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