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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have known this girl who is nearly year now, we have been talking for thst long and only recently we started talking alot.We used to talk about other people, and few issues she had but i was never first port of call. Recently we have started talking alot by text and lots of flirting. Yday i spoke to her all day, and throughout night and its been continuous. She cant even say good night easily, we flirt 100times before actuakly sleeping. She started sending me pics, (normal not even tiny bit revealing) and likes me to compliment her. This happens random times of day.I do, i encourage her not to use makeup and she loves it. I dont know how to make first move, she is too shy to talk on phone but its been non stop chatting for 24hours by text.Shall i give it more time? Although she has asked me to go pick her up but i was busy and plan never formed. Thanks..also what do girls love tslking about? Whats good/cute convo topics
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2013): Kind of reminds me to a situation I've been having as of late as well. What you can talk about simply get a topic on a common interest and work on that. For example, get to know what music does she like and talk to her about that. What you can do is ask her out, see if you can see each other face to face.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (31 December 2012):
 I get the impression that you've seen each other before and you live close by. You just don't know what's on her mind. She may be a person who prefers texting over calling. You can continue texting and only call for confirmation of the time you meet, or just to hear her voice. What kind of person can't handle a phone call, unless they have a phone phobia?
A girl can flirt over text but not flirt in real life. The only way to find out is to ask her out. If you succeed you gain a girlfriend. If you don't the only thing you lose is an illusion because the people you are presenting over text can't be transferred to reality.
What to talk about? I am the wrong person to answer that. I don't like talking. I just go with the practical stuff like work, aspirations and hobbies, also family. A potential boyfriend should not be cute, not even at your age. Cute convos are for girls and gay guy friends.
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