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writes:I’m a 22 year old virgin male – cause I only want to date when I am financially stable. My problem is that I’m short (5'4) with a small penis (3 and a half inches erect). I look like a hobbit. Plus girls always say I’m cute and sweet, which everyone says is bad. I do have a great sense of humor though, and lots of chest hair - which I think is cool. So I went to a doctor to look at me down there, and she said "I’m fine and sex shouldn't be a problem". but everything I’m reading says that because of my small penis my only options are celibacy, or getting cheated on and heartbroken. I will appreciate any advice…. And please don’t laugh.
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reader, Silius Sodimus  +, writes (22 January 2013):
Unless you have a micro penis, which you don't you'll be fine. Honestly I'm reasonably well endowed (just saying for the sake of the arguement) so Iv'e never felt your problem, but trust me a woman might fantasize about a thick penis but if that's all she want's then even a guy like me would stay away from her. Not worth it. If your a decent funny guy chances are it won't matter. Most nerve endings in a womans vagina are near the entrance and decrease the further you go in and studies consitantly show between 55-75% of women find it easier to achieve orgasm through oral stimulation than intercourse and believe me if you can get her to orgasm from oral stimulation I'm pretty sure the last thing she will worry about is your size. There is so mnuch more you can offer a woman than a big stick and there are plenty of women out there who aren't shallow enough to dictate their relationships according to size.
I understand how size can affect a man, hell even with what I got I sometimes wish I was alittle bigger. I wouldn't go with surgery unless it's a last resort. Surgery can get botched and you can end up with a smaller penis than what you originally had.
As for the height thing I live in Australia and most guys I see are taller than me too, but there are plenty of women out there shorter than me and even women who aren't phased by them being a little taller than you.
Trust me there are so many women out there with varying tastes in men it's not worth worrying about, the ones that only care about how big a guy is aren't worth any mans time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2013): I'm a 4ft 9 woman so trust me you do not look like a hobbit :) it's not about size it's about what u do with it. And the real woman will love you no matter what :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (31 December 2012):
 First of all hobbits have HUGE feet… and walk around barefoot… but are rather cute. I know men don’t want to be cute… my husband is about 5’6/5’7” and he’s adorable but he hates that.
Your height is fine. I’m a mere 5’2” and lots of girls are 5’4” or shorter… don’t fret about the height… as for your penis… well honey to be honest it will do the job of impregnating a woman which is what it’s for mainly.
For me a man with a small penis is a gem. He’s easy to give blow jobs to. And if he’s honed his skills in romance and also has good manual and oral skills (I would rather have an impotent man with a good tongue than a guy who thinks all he needs to do is stick his dick in me and move his hips) he’s worth his weight in gold.
I’m not sure what you are reading but celibacy, and being cheated on are certainly not your only options.
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reader, Kindpigeonette  +, writes (31 December 2012):
My 2 boyfriends have been ur height. I recommend gaining some weight and muscle. Google image Taeyang. I'm 4''10 and like their height. :)
As for ur penis size, they have surgery if u r really serious about it. Or find a girl who prefers oral, fingering, or isn't very sexual...and petite.
Don't worry so much!!! Good luck
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reader, YouWish +, writes (31 December 2012):
 What's "Everything you're reading"?
I say this a lot -- never ever think that the penis is your only sexual tool, and way too many guys do. What you do with your hands, your arms, your lips, your eyes, your time, your skill, far outweigh whether or not your penis has girth. In fact, a woman's G Spot is only about an inch and a half in, so you're covered.
There are a lot of women who are shorter than you. You have plenty to choose from! Just take care of your personal hygiene and develop a good, charismatic personality, and you'll have no problem! I've met many guys who look a bit ugly and seem to get a LOT of partners. One guy I knew who I thought looked like a troll actually cheated on his wife, who was pretty, with 4 different women! This ugly, smelly, gorilla looking guy who had an incredible personality. That's something I'll never forget!
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