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writes:Ok, here it goes my brothers gf is saying that she loves me when she hugs me every time I hug her. It was weird she went to hug me and my brother step in the way of the hug like he did not know that I was going to hug her then she step back like wtf are you doing but did not say it just kind of acted like it then he step out of the way in she gave me a hug, it was just like a good bye hug nothing to much going on but I want to know if some thing is going on because her friend ask me if I wanted to have sex with her and I said I do but I don't want to hurt any one in the meaning of hurting. But it is like she is trying to move more on me what do u thank why is she saying she loves me I don't get it? Reply to this Question
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reader, lmao1989  +, writes (31 December 2012):
 Sounds to me like she's flirting with you trying it on. Perhaps she is doing this to get a reaction from your brother, in her eyes she may think she's winding him up and wants him to react to protect her i guess you could say like stand up for the relationship.I most certainly would not sleep with her it's your brothers girlfriend girls come and go but family is for life do you really want to throw away your relationship with your brother for some girl like that? What then if you did and you guys got together who knows if she'd do the same with you as she has with him. She maybe trying it with his friends too.Stay well clear.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (31 December 2012):
 Ah OK, thanks Janniepeg. Wow.
OP, my advice stays the same but with more emphasis: stay away from her.
Your relationship with your brother will never, ever be the same again if you have sex with his girlfriend. Your whole family will think badly of you. It can't be worth it, can it?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (31 December 2012):
 Daisy, I think the other girl asked him if he wanted to have sex with the sister in law, and not the friend herself. She is like serving as the middle person of an affair. Now you said you wanted to have sex with your sister in law both women can use that against you. When the affair will come out, they can say it's you who want to stir this thing up. Dangerous! Stay away from her. Be sick for a month or something. You know she doesn't love you in the sense that a spouse should. She is saying that because she wants you to make a move. Because she wants to have an affair. Because you look so good you make her swoon. And because she has no morals and does not keep her vows. You are so innocent and that's why it's easy for the sister to inch her way in each time, until your defences are gone and you succumb to that desire.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (31 December 2012):
It's good that you say you don't want to hurt anyone. You would obviously hurt your brother a lot if anything happened between you and his girlfriend!
I'm not sure why the two of you keep hugging one another and think you should stop doing that right away. Tell her it's not appropriate and it makes you feel uncomfortable. Same when she says she loves you - and tell her you don't have romantic feelings for her, if that's what she's getting at. Try not to be alone with her.
Not sure what to say about the other girl who wants to have sex with you, but the priority is your brother and his feelings, not his girlfriends feelings.
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