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*addybear
writes:hey guys i need some advise on my ex partner, we have been broken up since Christmas but are still in contact every day, she would come to my home, talk, kiss me tell me she loves me and have sexual intercourse with me, now this is very confusing for me as i am so in love with this girl, and when we have sex it feels as we are getting back together, but it never happens, i tell myself that i will never let it happen again but i dont like sayin no to her cuz i love her so much. we broke up because she was textin other guys and keeping it from me, even sending dirty pictures to this guy who i later found out that they were an item while we was still together, im so down at the moment and need some advise on what to do, any advise would be most gratefulthanks guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): It's not love when it's only from one side, and that is your side. You need to be more angry and say to yourself what you deserve is a woman who wants to be with you on an emotional level, being a guy free sex is the easiest way to worm your way back into someone's heart, now think if it's working with you, how many other guy's besides the one you know about is this happening to?
Do you really want to be with a woman as untrustworthy as her? Are you worth more, don't you deserve better? You damn well do!
She's not even your friend, because friends don't betray trust like she did. You have no future with her. Move on.
Good luck.
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reader, Daddybear +, writes (10 April 2012):
Daddybear is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthat is what i was afraid of, i think i jus needed some1 to say it, from an outside point of view, thanks guys
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (9 April 2012):
 She's using you and you need to see that her actions have nothing to do with love or getting back together with you. She tells you she loves you just to get what she wants. Everytime you let her back into your life you are telling her that it's okay for her to treat you badly.
When you were in a relationship she cheated on you the whole time. Do you really want to get back with her? To live your life in constant fear that she may be cheating on you?
The best advice I can give you is stop answering her calls/texts and stop opening the door to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2012): mate walk away cut all ties and don't look back if she was sending people pics while u were together than she aint worth any energy at all
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