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writes:I lost my virginity recently and i have had sex twice with me on top.It didnt hurt then but yesterday i tried to have sex with my boyfriend on top and it hurt a lot!.Why did that happen and how can we make it comfortable with him on top?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (9 April 2012):
 Could be he is hitting your cervix when he is on top. Could be that you aren't "lubricated" or aroused enough .
If it hurt try another position.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 April 2012):
 well it depends on what hurt...
and why...
are you wet enough?
are you angled properly so he can penetrate properly?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (9 April 2012):
 I'm guessing it was not the fact that he was on top that it hurt, but the fact that he was in control of the speed and depth. Next time do a lot more foreplay and lube so it won't matter if he starts out a little too quickly for you. Also tell him to go very slowly at first, don't just try to jam it in there in one quick movement.
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