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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I haven't seen my best friend in a month. And just recently, she told me she won't be going until the end of April for her cousins wedding. We haven't had much contact lately. She said that it was because she wanted me to get used to her not being around. She wont even take my calls. I guess it was because two weeks ago, i texted her saying that i missed her so much. I missed her smile, her voice, making her happy, her presence, everything. My heart felt like it was hurting then, and i guess she took it to heart. She thinks I feel that way everyday, that Im miserable everyday, and so shes says she wants me to get used to her not being round. I'm not miserable everyday, I can still enjoy life. There are just times when I feel like that. The weird thing is, there were times i sent her texts like that too and she would always say how she misses me too. But now, this, The thing is, though I did miss her that time, i was also aching because I desperatley wanted to tell her I was in love with her. I knew the longer I waited, the less chance I would have. But I'm committed not to tell her yet because I feel like I would fail her if I tell too early. She wanted this years to be with her best friend (me.) . Now it feels like shes trying her best not to see me. She said she wont go home until the end of April (she works far away and cant go me every week), but I'll be leaving the country in early May. What should I do?
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reader, 2nd man +, writes (10 April 2012):
 maybe she is just sad about something. those texts were harmless .
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