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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My bf comes after about 3 minutes of sex, even if we just had it that day already. We've been in a relationship for ages and he always ends up saying sorry after sex. I usually don't mind but it's getting to the point where I really don't get a huge a lot from sex. I don't orgasm during sex, never have with any boy, so it's not that I am seeking. He has lasted longer before, but it's never hugely long. He stops sometimes to delay it, but even then it's still short. Not sure what we can do.
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reader, shrodingerscat  +, writes (10 April 2012):
 Have him bring you to orgasm with oral or manual sex or stimulation with a sex toy BEFORE intercourse, that way you'll be satisfied and it won't matter how long he lasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2012): are you serious about this guy? if you think you might be, sort this out NOW. Talk to him, explain that you're sometimes left hanging. Whatever you do, do not be accusatory. Use the "we" approach ie how can "we" improve the situation. You may find that there is something you can do to make it more pleasurable for him too. If he won't talk, think very seriously about the future. It might be a bit annoying now but, trust me, in 5 or so years, you'll be seriously pissed off. Of course, the way you handle this is going to determine the course of life with this guy so be gentle. good luck!
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