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What should I do with my hands during foreplay?

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Question - (9 April 2012) 6 Answers - (Newest, 9 April 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

During foreplay, what are some things I can do with my hands? I feel like I always just run my hands through his hair lol, and not much else. What are some ways I can touch a guy that will drive him crazy?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (9 April 2012):

chigirl agony auntDo what you feel like you want to do, basically. Seeing as guys are turned on by different things, just like us women, you'll have to let your hands wander and do some exploring to find out what exactly he enjoys that you do to him. So let your hands go explore his body, and maybe also follow up with exploring him with your lips. That's how I discovered my man loves it when I kiss and nibble on his nipples. No other man I was with particularly enjoyed that, but it drives this one crazy.

You just got to start touching him all over and kiss him all over to find his special spots...

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (9 April 2012):

Honeypie agony auntHere is a nice link with some of the male erogenous zones to give you a little inspiration :

http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/9-surprising-male-erogenous-zones-2423108.html

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (9 April 2012):

Fatherly Advice agony auntSo very,

The question was easy until your interpretation. The more I think about it the harder it is to answer. But, I guess she would like some answers from guys so I'll put in a few ideas that have worked. (disclaimer: Passionate people can often be quite excitable, sometimes you may get a response you were not expecting.)

Rake your nails across his shoulders - back - bottom - thighs, whatever you can reach. Twill his chest hair around a finger. Stroke his ears, poke a finger in. Tickle his armpits. Massage his perineum. Pinch his nipples.

By the way I agree with all the other suggestions so far. They sound fun.

FA

Remember to let your fingers do the talking. Be sure you are communicating your feelings with your hands. That is the important thing. Next, explore and get to know him well. Find out what he likes. Let him know what you like about him.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (9 April 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntI think she means when he's "getting busy down below"

as in you don't do 69 and he's giving you oral?

not much honey

hold and play with your boobs if he watches you.... and you get turned on by it...

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2012):

holding and stroking his penis will drive him crazy.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (9 April 2012):

person12345 agony auntLots of guys love having their inner thighs rubbed/touched. Gentle tugs on the hair can be hot too, also pulling them closer by the shirt.

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