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male
age
36-40,
*rion
writes:I was once in love with this girl. A girl I never got a chance to date but I swear I was in love. 3 years later I havent heard or talked to her I have had gf since but to this day I cannot get over her. No matter how hard I try the thoughts of her, the desire to be with her and hold her overwhelm me. How do I handle this situation? also I never really got any closure with her. I just want one last chance to say goodbye. did i wait to long or should this be something I bring up 3 years later. I have never felt this way with any other girl and I still get butterflies thinking about her. I just want closure but not sure if its a good idea Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 April 2012):
 I think it is the desire of the unknown that gets you. You have never been with this girl but am sure you have built up a perfect picture of what it could have been like being with her and it is this idea that you cannot get over. If you feel that you have unfinished business with her then try and contact her again but take things slow, ask her would she like to meet up with you, casually tell her that you have been thinking about her and wondering how she has been but don't tell her you still have feelings for her or anything because it might scare her a little just treat it as casual and try and get to know each other again.
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