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writes:I just met this girl (last few days). Last night we were on skype video chatting, and one thing led to another and we ended up having mutual masturbation, cam sex or whatever you want to call it. Now I kinda regret doing it, I have never had sex so I don't know what one-night-stand regret is like but I imagine I am feeling a watered down version of it.Is what I did wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (24 April 2012):
 No it's not wrong. You're not going to get sued for it, and as long as the girl was of age then there's nothing to worry about.
If you regret doing it just don't do it again. And try not to let this get to you or bother you, we all make mistakes and the only way to find out what we like or not, or what we are comfortable with or not, is to try it out. Which you did. And now you know.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (24 April 2012):
 It is wrong for you if you are feeling regret. There are people who feel refreshed after a one night stand, thinking it's the best thing ever while other people feel a sense of emptiness. You met this girl a few days ago, so you are still thinking whether to talk to this girl again. It will feel yucky that you are just in each other's lives for a quick release and nothing else. One night stand is better with someone you don't care about and won't contact again.
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reader, matildasummer +, writes (24 April 2012):
Hello.
Ok. So you need to try & not get too hung up on it. What's done is done, you didn't kill any one. We all do things we wish we didn't do, that's life. Do even you like the girl you did it with? If so it doesn't mean all is lost with her. Maybe she's feeling the same, so it might be best to just talk about it with her and say look, I don't normally do that etc. Either way, if you talk to the girl again or not, you know that how u feel about it now, means it's not worth you doing it again. That said, maybe leave doing that kinda stuff with someone you know a lot better, and have a more of a connection with, because I feel you wouldn't have this regret otherwise.
Hope this helped! X
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