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writes:What does is mean when a guy tells you that you were the right girl at the wrong time? When's the right time? Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (18 April 2012):
 I would guess that he wants you to feel "special" and make you think that perhaps some day the time WILL be right.
Honestly, he is a waste of time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012): Why not ask him sure? You don't have to pour your soul out but you may aswell ask him to clarify what he meant as you've been trying figure it out.
The only thing I'd worry about is the juggling life thing. If it's not study, maybe it'll be his career or his hobbies. He may not be the kind of guy who has room in his life for a girlfriend for a good while.
Then again he could be using that as a convenient excuse.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (17 April 2012):
It means you're a damn good girl, and you should move on because he's either a player, of he's just not into you enough.
Either way, don't bother with this guy
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reader, PrivateGirl +, writes (17 April 2012):
PrivateGirl is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys. He said this while talking about our past relationship, he's my ex. But we talk a lot now.. so that's why I wonder if now is the right time?
He doesn't flirt with me but I would love to give us a shot. I just don't know how to work around someone who's so "busy".. he can't seem to juggle his life correctly. He can't handle having a girlfriend and studys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012): Just a nice way of saying he's not interested in you. It's the same as "You're a lovely girl but I'm not interested in a relationship right now." "I'm not looking for a relationship but if I was it would be you." etc.
He's basically telling you it's not going to happen but he's keeping the door open in case he's looking for a ride off you in the future.
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reader, N91 +, writes (17 April 2012):
 Sounds like right now he's telling you he wants to be single, but when he's looking to settle down, you'd be perfect for it.
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reader, StarryEyes101 +, writes (17 April 2012):
 Perhaps the guy has a lot going on in his life that he doesn't have the time for a relationship. He obviously likes you, but there are things going on around him that won't let him be with you. Nobody knows when the right time is except for him. Either wait and see what happens, or move on.
Hope this helps :)
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reader, Taylaa.x +, writes (17 April 2012):
It means he's an idiot, and wants to mess about having one night stands and sleeping with random people than settling down in a relationship. He means that, you're the kind of girl he can see himself settling down with, but he doesnt want to settle down yet. Sorry, i know from experience that this is just a line guys use. Get out sweetie, theres better people out there for you.
Taylaa.x
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