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writes:I have had this sex buddy for several months and he seems to be more affectionate these days. The other day we had sex and he had to rush off and apologized a couple of times and said he would try to come back by to spend time with me. He asks me if i missed him and then tells me he missed me to he tries to find things that we have in common and he knows i like guys in the age group 30 to 40 and he is always telling me he is 35 and will be 36 in the fall. He kisses and hugs me bye everytime. Is this normal for sex buddies? Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (18 April 2012):
 Perfectly normal . As your starting to get emotionally attached you are now looking for signs he's into you for more than sex . Hes just being polite .
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012): Yeah of course. It's nice to be nice to people you're having sex with. Just don't read anything into it OP. He could end the arrangement tomorrow if he likes or maybe start dating someone.
OP I act the same way around my female friends too, I tell them I miss them, hug them and want to spend time with them (without the sex of course). Doesn't mean I want anything more.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 April 2012):
 I'd say very normal ,if he is not a total jerk. He's just coming out of your bed, and you have just ended sharing something very personal and intimate, how is he supposed to take his leave, by shaking your hand ? " Thanks, Miss Smith, it was a pleasure to have intercourse with you, have a good day ".
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (17 April 2012):
 We don't know what this will turn into. What he is doing is also normal among guys who fake a relationship so that you won't lose interest and find another one. For me there is no such thing as between a casual and a real relationship. You are either in one or you are not. The only thing you have to worry about is whether he keeps his promises, appointments and makes sure he doens't disappoint you.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 April 2012):
 It can be normal yes, everyone behaves differently when they are in this position. A guy likes to feel that he has been missed so that explains why he would ask you that. He would not like to think of you with anybody else even if you and him are not committed to each other. My guess is that you have feelings for him and you are wanting more? If that is the case you need to bring this up now in conversation to avoid hurt at a later date.
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reader, eek +, writes (17 April 2012):
 He is showing you that he likes you and cares about you. Maybe he wants more than sex buddies but does not want to say incase it makes things difficult.
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reader, cuteandchic93  +, writes (17 April 2012):
Well, I have never had a sex buddy but I definitely think this is weird. Why don't you talk to him? I think it's the best thing you can do. Maybe he wants to start a serious relationship with you, so if you're not willing to start something serious with him, you should let him know. Hope this helps!
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