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female
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41-50,
*eebooger
writes:I feel like my fiance looks at porn too much. he of course doesnt feel as if he does. it is starting to cause problems between us. i am not happy with the amount of sex we have, i'd like more. he says hes not in the mood as much as me but i just cant understand how he can not b in the mood but wtill watches porn and i assume hes masterbating while watching it. there was a time in the past he was choosing porn and masterbation over me and starting to seem like its becoming that way again. i just dont know how to let go of the past mistakes and give him the benifit of the doubt this time. is there anything he can do that may ease my mind? is there a certian way for me to discuss this with him to avoid a defensive reaction that causes a fight so we can actually discuss the issue at hand like adults?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2012): This needs to be stopped, my first boyfriend was like this and he started telling me how to look and wasnt into giving me pleasure.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (17 April 2012):
 There really is no easy way to go about this, you need to talk to him about it. At the end of the day it is your future you need to think about and am pretty sure you wouldn't want to be married to a man that prefers to watch porn than be with his wife. You need to just sit down with him, tell him you don't want an argument you just want to tell him how you feel. Then tell him how it makes you feel and how worried you are. Hopefully he will reassure you and start paying you more attention than porn.
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