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writes:I was hoping for some advice on a trip I may or may not go on. So here it goes. Like 3 years ago me and my then bestie was on holiday in las Vegas, I am from the uk and this was like the trip of all trips. I was crazy. I meet 3 guys and one do them I kept in touch with. He was always like come visit me becsuse he lives there but I never actually did make it back. Lately I really need a break and we have been talking and I am thinking hmmm I could go back for a week in the summer have a amazing trip again with more amazing sex. It's just fun nothing serious becsuse look at our distance. The only thing that puts me off is the fact he is a little bit of a player and he always posts new pictures with new girls on Facebook he never has had a girlfriend (that I know off) and he has also offered another girl a place to stay if she visits him. That all bothers me when I know it shouldnt. Like here I am hardly innocent. I am on a on/off thing with my ex, I text other guys all the time so really is what I am doing no different than him (I am going to visit my ex in London next month) should I just go have fun and forget all these other girls because when I am with him he will only be with me and he will look after me that much I do know for a fact. Or should I have more self respect and be like I am not going.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy safety isn't a problem I am a 25 year old women I have travelled alone before. I think the males response I am not some slut who sleeps around its just been a tough year and I would really like a hOliday. It's not really an optiOn to go away with friends. It would be a pretty good time. It was just the fact he is with other girls kinda made me think twice. But reall it's not as if he is in a relationship or me for that matter.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (17 April 2012):
 If you take him as is, and just want a holiday then fine . BUT he is a virtual stranger so you dont really know him that well , so long as your safety is not a concern then see what he says . You may be better off going someplace else with a friend/friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012): "Or should I have more self respect . . ."
MORE self respect?
Honey, you don't have one molecule of self-respect. A self-respecting woman would never even consider the possibility of flying thousands of miles simply for a free room and "amazing sex" courtesy of some two-bit Vegas lowlife who probably bangs tourists by the truckload.
But I will concede not going would be a milestone first step on the road to self respect.
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