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anonymous
writes:Why do i feel so jealous of his exes? I have been with my bf for 2 years. I know i shouldnt but i cant help myself. One ex is mother of his children and the other is one that stayed good friends with him (he did seem to be infatuated with this girl) he has lots of photos and videos of them both. He hasnt been in contact with the 2nd girl since before seeing me, even tho she has tried to get into contact via fb. Its driving me crazy worrying if he wants to or even thinks about getting back with them. I know people say they are exes for a reason but he has slept with both of them after they have split up and i get the impression it wasnt his choice to break up in the first place, and he was in love with them for a while after. I need to stop being so paranoid.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (18 April 2012):
 this relationship will be over before you know it if you carry on like this, get a grip. Ask yourself if you would go back to your Exs or are you happy with your man?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2012): It is hard but you have to concentrate on now. He is with you, wants to be with you. Unless you ever have real cause to worry, try not to dwell on people from his past. The mother of his children, of course, will always be there and you have to deal with that. However, bolster up your own confidence, that will help reassure you that you are central in his life.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (18 April 2012):
 You said it! You do need to stop being so paranoid. You are going to kill this relationship with your jealousy. You need to get it into your head that he's with you now. The ex's are in the past and we all have a past even you.
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