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*rishlad1995
writes:I'm 16 and I've had 4 or 5 girlfriends in the past for a few months. At the moment I am with a girl a month and a half, this is the first time I've felt fully in love. I've said I've loved other girls but me and this girl just click. We now EVERYTHING about each other and can be open about anything. Every-time we go out, we get better together! Tonight I went out to her and her two girlfriends, the night was going great until a point, when she stopped, looked at her phone and called her friend back to her. Normally she does this to tell a joke or something, but tonight she was serious, she turned around and walked on with her arms folded. I put my arm around her waist as normal and she done nothing at all, she just stayed still ,walking on.Her eyes started watering after a while, she insisted she was fine. I asked her was she because she wasn't acting herself. She quickly sidestepped my questions and walked on. We walked in pretty much silence, to her friends house a mile away, she picked up her bag there and then I walked her to near her house. We kissed as normal, hugged and then I asked her once more, was she alright, she insisted she was and she walked on, saying that she would ''talk to me later''. I now know that she is crying in her house and that she is upset, despite her making to numerous excuses for the obvious signs she was sending off. I think it is about something a boy told my ex (bad-mouthing her). My ex cleared it up with me on the day and she seemed as if she trusted that I didn't say anything. However today, my ex's friends gave her dirty looks and surrounded her desk at one stage. I also heard that she had €40 taken from her bag. Her friend is also my friend, she told me that my GF said to her that it was about ''a lot more'' than just the looks she got. I have done nothing on her and am afraid that the girls told a lie about me or badmouthed me. They've done similar before and I am effectively bullied by one of the girls, she is my neighbour and I can't get over why she's always bad to me? What should I do, who should I talk to? I've suffered from deppression before, even though from the outside I don't look like a weak person, I am. I can't lose her, my mind is running fast and I can't think straight. I really need help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): I've never dated any of her friends and I've done nothing to upset her, I'm fairly sure its a rumour. By the way, this is me again, I'm just not logged in, I'm on my phone.
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reader, Tyb  +, writes (24 November 2011):
 Firstly,i'lld like to ask,have you ever dated any of her friends?if so,maybe she's just jelous of you being with her friend,and is trying to ruin your friendship by telling her something about your past..i think going out with her and two of her friends is not a good idea.secondly did you do or say anything to her that u think might hurt her?think about it.then go over to her house or text her and apologise.goodluck.
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