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writes: My boyfriend and i have a 4 month old daughter together.we have been with each other every day for 3 months. we see each other every day, but when i'm not with him i miss him and want to be with him i feel empty and alone. how can i make this easier Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, moon river +, writes (23 November 2011):
did someone suddenly leave your life at some point and it makes you feel worried?
are you suffering from post natal depression?
are you too dependent on your boyfriend for company? do you have many friends you could spend time with instead to try and ease yourself off the dependency?
only you can answer these questions
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): Maybe you should start doing other things and having some "me time". Watch TV or cook..invite friends over. Have fun. Feeling that way is not good. Good luck!
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reader, Abella +, writes (23 November 2011):
A new baby is a big change to you life. And I hope you are enjoying the joy of your new baby.
Your guy sounds very attentive and you have been with each other every day for three months.
Are you aware that your hormones can play havoc with your moods after you have a baby? And lead to PostNatal depression?
This type of depression after a baby is born is very common. It is not your fault, though you cannot fix it.
But your Docto CAN FIX it.
Please make an appointment to see your doctor. A new Mom's care continues well after the new baby is born.
Explain how sad and empty and alone you have been since the baby was born, despite good support from your guy.
Your Doctor can help and may also refer you to some counseling.
Please seek out this help now as your lovely baby deserves a happy Mom and YOU most certainly deserve every ounce of good caring support you can access
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