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writes:I'm confused as what to do even though i know the right way to go. I can't stop thinking bout my ex, i love him so much and don't know why. He's cheated, treat me like crap and eventually kicked me out of his house. I've never put a foot wrong and love him dearly. I've never cheated. Although we had fights bout his drug use etc, we did have some good times. I don't know why he got so jealous of my male friends, i always told him they are just friends and only want him. We've been split since end of july but have met up a few times after and he wanted sex those times, he's said he'll always love me but can't be with me anymore. I don't understand. The girlfriend he was with before me he said he loved then dumped her and said it wasn't her fault. This is the second time we have split and the first time i ended it coz of his drug use. He now has a new girlfriend and i hope he doesn't do the same thing to her. I really don't know what i'm asking for advice on but I want to know how i can forget about him quicker, i don't even think he ever loved me or anyone i think he's too selfish. I would like a new boyfriend but nobody seems suitable and i'm afraid i will always think of my ex.. advice on how to move on/ next step please.. :)
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (25 November 2011):
 your very welcome hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy group of friends are great, he has nothing to do with them they are my friends only and he has his friends who i do not see anymore. I do think of how much i loved him and i'm not sure if i stil love him or if its because i still think about him alot, i don't know. I've never done anything like he has. He went against me because i was the only one who tried to get him off it and everyone else (who he thinks are his "amazing friends") just let him carry on, either because they also did it or just didn't want to cause conflict. His mum and dad don't even know what he gets up to and i was so tempted to tell his mum one day but i didn't because it could ruin their relationship. I think i can get over it eventually but i just need a guy to prove to me that he loves me for me and will be there for me because i have never had that really. Thanks for your help both of you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): Never forget, but do try to understand.
"Although we had fights bout his drug use etc,"
Drug users, alcoholics, the mentally ill, it is all about the disease, not the other person.
Al Anon Online is a good place to go to find out about other's experiences and chat with others who have been through what you have been through. You have a bit of work to do, but users traumatize those of us who have been involved with them, even if it is unintentional.
http://www.ola-is.org/groups/about/index.htm
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reader, mammaboo +, writes (23 November 2011):
You are hanging in the wrong crowd . You need a new set of friends. you have all the answers about this guy change the way you think about him. Start to think of him as a drug adict and some one who needs proffesional help. Think about how he will drag you down because of his habit. Think about how he has already got another easy catch on his arm.Maybe she does drugs too. Move on while you can there is nothing positive about this guy!
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