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writes:ok were do i start... so i really like this guy (Joe) who i met through his brother (Kevin)! but i know his brother likes me! iv known Kevin through-out school but only really just became proper friends but we have kissed twice which was a mistake... but now meeting his brother i really seem to have feelings for him and him the same with me. But i feel awful as i kevin has told me he likes me! and i was round there house today and just flirting with joe infront of kevin!! i just dont no what to do??? if anybody could send me some advice it would be greatly appreciated x
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reader, ShiShisAdvice  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 You are simply asking for trouble and heartbreak. There is a dynamic between brothers that many just do not understand. A bit of competiveness in everything. The best thing for you to do is end the relationship because it will never ever work since there is an attraction with the OTHER brother.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): You have already gone and created this drama. You had already kissed Kevin twice (whether it was a mistake or not) and now you have blatantly gone and flirted with his brother in front of him. That in itself is extremely cruel. What you should do now is walk away and stop contact with both of them. You say you seem to really have feelings for his brother, so it sounds like your not sure of that either. Do yourself a favor and don't get involved with either boy, do you want to be the girl who's boyfriend's family tolerate instead of like, and cause a rift in someone else's family simply because you seem to have feelings. Just walk away and don't do this again, if you don;t like somone don;t kiss them, and if you meet their brother look at them as nothing more than your friend's brother, not as a possible love interest, because no-one likes to get used and you have used Kevin whether it is unintentional or not.
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