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writes:Ok, so I was just sitting in my room, thinking about ways to please my boyfriend, when I realized that with TMJ (Temperal Mandibular Joint, pretty much the right side of my jaw is messed up and I cant open my mouth very wide), I'm pretty limited in terms of blowjobs! So I'm wondering if there are any women on here that have TMJ, or just cant open their mouths very wide, that have found some way to make do with what they've got.Or perhaps men with a wife/fwb/girlfriend with this problem?I was all fine and dandy, excited to be able to do things for my man, until I remembered this fact. And it's unfixable, too, because I'd have to have my jaw broken, from what my mom (who has it too) said, and re-set. Scary...
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, everyone! I feel better knowing I still have a way to use my mouth :) The popsicle thing is very helpful. I'm going to have to get a popsicle and see how I lick a popsicle, since it's one of those things you do without thinking!
My TMJ does the same thing, it makes my jaw pop, which usually doesn't bother me, it's mostly just the locking and the not being able to open my mouth very wide.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 Lick, lick it like a popsicle.. You've probably heard that one before. How do you get down on a popsicle? You don't take the entire thing in your mouth. You nibble at the top, and you lick down the sides, and you hold it at the bottom with your hands. And that's a blowjob done just right.
Play with his balls for extra pleasure. It's your tongue and lips that are magic, not your throat or teeth.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (23 November 2011):
 You can take just the head of his penis in your mouth and suck/lick (especially if you flick the underside where the head meets the shaft with your tongue) and use your hands on the shaft (either a gentle twisting motion or just up and down like a hand job) and on his testicles (GENTLY). I can't open my mouth very wide for a long time, it causes it to lock painfully so I just do the above technique. Going deep is not necessary at all, most of the nerve endings are in the head so that's where the actual mouth part is better. I've been told several times I give amazing oral, so clearly killing yourself by overexerting and stretching is not necessary.
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reader, Candid Cally +, writes (23 November 2011):
My TMJ kept me from opening my mouth very wide until I damage the joint to the point that part of my jaw pops out of place. :-/
An anti-inflammatory like naproxen or ibuprofen may reduce the swelling in your jaw enough to allow you to open your mouth a bit wider. Just don't force your mouth to open any wider than is comfortable for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): Thats why you use lots of lube aka spit, work the hands, and save the tip, usually most sensitive for the mouth for sucking, tongue flicking, licks. You can still slide your mouth, tongue, lips all down and around the shaft, just can't deep it. Most women don't like to anyways so use what you got and mix it up. Never had complaints yet.
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