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anonymous
writes:Do you think this guy still likes me ? I bumped into him recently in a pub in town.we used to be seeing each other for about 2 months.my mum was with me when i bumped into him but she bought a drink for him and left us alone to talk.we didnt have a discussion at the time we broke up.he just stopped contacting me.he had money problems at the time and had 2 jobs.he told me when i bumped into him that he quit one of his jobs a few weeks earlier and he said he had been wanting to call me but was afraid to.he asked who this guy was that he saw me with once after he stopped contacting me and asked if he was my boyfriend.he wasnt though. He told me he hasnt seen any women since me and he kept my number in his phone. He even remembered how many weeks it had been since i last saw him and it had been a while since i had last seen him . He said i am a nice girl and that i didnt do anything wrong.when he was leaving he shook my hand,gave me a kiss on the lips and told me to thank my mum for the drink.after he had walked away a bit, he said " i'm waiting for you to turn around so i can see your sexy a** " !. He meant he was waiting for me to turn around to go back in the pub as we were stood outside at that point. And he said he was checking my figure out.i'm not sure if we will be in contact on the phone again like we used to,or if we will date again but i hope i will see him again even if we are just on friendly terms .obviously he still finds me attractive but i'm not sure what he wants.what do you think ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): Here's an update.by a funny coincidence i saw him again today !.he wanted me to go back to his flat to reminisce,as he put it,but i couldnt go coz i had already made plans to meet a friend.i cant stop thinking about him now.what do you think of him asking that ?.i wish i could have gone with him.he said it was nice of me and my mum to buy him a drink that time too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): He doesn't want anything from the sounds of it. Your mom bought him a drink and he stuck around long enough to finish it and then was on his way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2011): I wouldn't think too much into this. He may just have been being friendly - and that's nice. So leave it at that. Certainly don't wait for a call - if he does call then great but don't put your life on hold.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 November 2011):
 Assume he wants nothing. Because he does nothing, except admiring your sexy a**. He wanted to call you, but. But what, the point is that he did not call you did he ?. He may have had reasons and motives and scruples for not calling you after ditching you, sure, but apparently these reasons are stronger than his ( presumed ) desire to reconnect with you.
Also keep in mind that he met you by chance, in public, and your mom had offered him a drink, what was he supposed to do, run away screaming ? I think it's normal that he acted friendly and debonair, and I would not read much into this brief exchange.
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reader, questionable2009  +, writes (23 November 2011):
Hard to say. He could've said all that because he was trying to cover up his guilt on ceasing all contact with you last time.
Or maybe he had a genuine reason for stopping the contact and does find you attractive.
I'd play it cool if i were you. Don't hang by the phone waiting for him. Continue life and see if he contacts you. If he hasn't within a couple weeks, forget him. If he liked you that much he'd be phoning you as soon as he could!
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