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anonymous
writes:Hello everyone. Okay let's get straight to the point. My boyfriend of 2 years and some cents has been constantly ignoring me, very much lack of communication, hasn't been showing me any kind of attention, when i come around, he acts like he doesn't want me around..he said i be smothering him and he's tired of me just coming over there like that. I have been crying, constantly, blowing him up and everything. Remind you, this is the same guy that has cheated on me numerous of times, he disrespects me, etc. It's hard because i hate feeling like this. Any suggestion on what i should do because i really love this guy and want to be with him forever even though he treats me badly.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): you don't love him. it's just that your self esteem is so worn down from his emotional abuse that you have this need to gain what it is you don't have, which is the rare times when he's nice to you. So those rare times when he's nice to you, becomes magnified in intensity in your mind and you mistake this for "love."
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): He sounds like a real IDIOT!!
I think if you want to keep your sanity, you should break up with HIM! End it and be the strong person who has ended it first.
If you stay, he will hurt you. He clearly doesnt feel anything for you anymore. If he doesnt want to be around you, says you are smothering and seems like he'd prefer be anywhere but near you then its a very CLEAR indication that you annoy him and he doesnt want to be with you.
I KNOW its very hard when you love someone and dont want to give up. But I truly think he will dump you soon so for your own sanity, dump him for being a twat and it will be the right decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): OY- My heart goes out to you really that SUCKS.
He sounds like an ass, but I know you love him
Its all about the blinded by love that we cant see straight.
I know you can be happier without him just give it time-
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2011): the best thing to do is just let go of him, if its meant to be it will come back if not your meant to be with someone else. boys usually don't like being smothered or that much affection at all. they like the more "hard to get" type of girls and get tired of the same ol' relationships because no boy that is young is ready to be fully committed to anyone they like to be free and do whatever they want. goodluck
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reader, iknowit'struel0ve +, writes (24 November 2011):
I'm so sorry for how you must feel. There is no worse feeling in the world than being so in love with someone who treats you wrong. I never thought I'd get over my first love, but I allowed for it to happen and turns out I found a stronger love than him (UNBELIEVABLE - I KNOW) - it can happen! Please have faith! Realize who you are! Know your worth and find someone else who will cherish it too. He's an a$$ hole and we all deserve better. If you continue in this relationship I think you will only regret it more and more down the road. Good luck. xx
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