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male
age
30-35,
*hl1310
writes:I met a girl about three weeks ago. I hungout with her two days after we met. Anyways, we talked alot the first week. We were both flirty and I could tell we both liked each other. She slept over the next weekend and we had a good night. The next few days we talked a good amount and then all of a sudden she started to seem less interested. The past week and a half shes sent one word responses. The past 3 days I've texted her and she hasn't responded. Shes busy, but not that busy.So tonight I texted her tonight and said that im about to leave her alone because it seems thats what she wants. She responds back saying shes figuring out what to do with her life and that I didn't do anything wrong. Then I told her I liked her and the night we hungout was amazing. I asked her if she needs me to leave her alone for now.She says "yes for a little. its not you"I'm not stupid, but does mean she doesn't want to talk anymore because thats how I feel. Pretty much, I shouldn't wait for her to text me?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 November 2011):
 Yup leave her be, no calling, no texting. Time to move on.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 Nope, you shouldn't wait for her to text you, or call you, or whatever. Just move on.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (2 November 2011):
 I agree with pink topaz.. she's being kind... "it's not you it's me" is the nice way of saying "go away"
BTW for future reference.. texting should not be used for IMPORTANT stuff... that should be done via phone at bare minimum or face to face if possilble.
2 reasons.
1. hard to convey emotions in texts
2. hard to verify text was actually received (limitations of the network means that texts are low priority and someitmes do not get sent properly)
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (2 November 2011):
She's letting you down as gently as possible. You're right, she doesn't want to talk to you anymore. So just go about your life--definitely don't wait for her; she may or may not ever text you again but don't bother wasting your time on waiting for her because it's probably not going to happen anytime soon.
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