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writes:ok me and mt bf have been goin out for almost a year now he takes care of me he is nice kind genleman gives me wat i want all the time but oneday i asked him how he felt about me. i doubt since he was giving money and paying for my phone bills and all that i said do u love me and he said i like u and then i repeated then he felt i was a bit consernd and he said he feels lame to tell me he loves me but then he gets jealouse like everytime and i realy love him but its seems like am slowly fallin out love with him some times i feel like using him till i get done with my medical school and totaly confused help me pliz
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (3 November 2011):
 Definitely not an English major! Although, I would expect better punctuation and grammar from a med student.
Anyways, if this guy really loved you then he wouldn't be afraid to admit it. Also, if you really loved him, then you wouldn't be using him as your personal ATM machine. Why can't you get a job and pay your own bills?
Dump this guy and gain some independence.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 November 2011):
 You should never use someone, it is completely heartless and can leave that person very hurt, upset, confused, angry and most importantly broken. If you feel like you do not love him any more, and he cannot bring himself to say that he loves you well then maybe it is time to go your separate ways. Don't use him for your own selfish needs, because karma is a horrible thing.
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reader, Koala Bear  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 First off, never use a person. Have respect for him and yourself and learn how to gain your own independence.
Second, he most likely feels the same as you do(falling out of love/never got there). Jealous is not a determining factor for love. Jealous applies to having an emotional connection, being comfortable with routine habits, or simply coaxing your competitive nature. So if a man acts jealous it does not mean that he loves you. He say's he likes you, then he likes you. If a guy really loves you, he wouldn't care how "lame" he would seem by saying it to you.
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