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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So, I need some help with this problem that I'm having involving a boy that I like.Well, it all started last year, I noticed this boy that I thought was very attractive. I never talked to him, but I'd secretly crush on him. So, about 2 months ago I gathered the courage to talk to him, keep in mind though that I would only see him once every 2 weeks, due to reasons I'm not going to explain why. He seemed to take an interest in me, because after I walked away, he followed me, and then we just hung out.He gave me his number and I texted him, we texted all night. We texted straight for a complete week, then it just stopped. So, I would text him, and he would respond sometimes, other times he wouldn't at all to our conversation, which made me confused. But when he did decide to carry on our conversation, he would openly flirt and tell me things like I was cute, or I was beautiful, and often how much he wanted to kiss me. And even when we hung out we were SO close... (I think he chickened out.) Now in all honesty I don't trust many guys, due to all the players in the world, but I think this guys different.When the time came that he was going back to school, I asked if he would come and visit me every now and again, he never replied. Every time I would bring that subject up I would never hear from him. But I saw him the day before he left, and he said he would visit whenever he gets a break, I offered to go on a small road trip and he said that he'd let me know when I schedule everything out.But recently I've never heard from him. He doesn't text me, and I'm waiting for his text. And I really don't know how he feels about me. I know for a fact that he is always busy either working his 2 jobs, or studying for school, but how come he could reply for a week straight and not reply now? Should I even bother asking him about him visiting? Considering he never replied any other times I asked.Do you think he even likes me?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 I think you've taken your best shot at trying to get to know him and he's pretty clearly signaled that he isn't all that interested or bothered to get to know you. He may have a new girlfriend, or lost his phone, or whatever, but he is not taking the time to reply. A guy who likes you would try harder to communicate with you. I'd simply stop texting and move on. Be wary and take things very slow if he does ever contact you again. He's not burning with desire to be with you, is my take on this.
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